Infinite love
Wanting love is not the same as finding love. There’s a clear distinction between the word ‘Want’ and ‘Find’ with the latter being the discovery of something by chance or unexpectedly and having the desire to possess something due to the lack of it being the meaning of the former.
Many of us are too preoccupied with the idea of finding the ideal partner that we sometimes forgot there are other important things in life (Unless your aim in life to search for one).
Have you ever tried to look for something but you couldn’t find it or remember what it is that you wanted to find? and then when you’re not looking for it, it seems like the thing you wanted just appear out of nowhere. A successful relationship are ones that happen out of chance. You can’t go and look for it, you have to let the universe takes over and let it find you.
That being said, you won’t find love by sitting in your room in front of your computer (Like what I’m doing right now) and expect the universe to work its magic and your future partner suddenly appear out of nowhere. No, it doesn’t work like that.
Instead of spending a copious amount of time finding that perfect boy or girl, spend those time improving your character, doing what you love, read more books, find new restaurant to eat at. Be as perfect as you can be and with the imperfection that’s left, there will be a guy/girl appear in your life to fill up those gap.
There will be a moment in your life where you finally find yourself, you learn to love and be happy with who you are and with what you have. When this happen, you stop looking because there’s nothing missing in your life any more. In order to be complete, you need you and only you. Then, after that is achieved, the right person will walk in. He/she is not the right person because who they are, but because who you are. You gotta be the right person before the right person walks in.
Valentine’s Day has been increasingly commercialised year after year. Despite that, couples around the world are still embracing the idea that February 14th is a special day for them and a special effort must take place in order to show their other half that their love is infinite.
Is it really Valentine if you choose to buy a gift for your other half on a specific day (Other than birthday and anniversary). There’s 365 day in a year, and you should love her/him in those 365 days. To celebrate means the love is rare or special. Loving her/him shouldn’t be rare.
For those who celebrated, I hope your day with your significant other were full of love and hopefully it continues for many years to come.
And for those single people, remember, when you least expect it, love will come find you and remind you of who you are.
As for me, I spent the day travelling around Kuala Lumpur and visited Cafe on my own. Sure, there are friend who asked me why I was alone. The truth is that is, when you’re surrounded with people on most days, at times you want to spend a day with yourself and the happiness it brings is infinite. (Nope, I’m not anti-social)
(Valentine’s day was 2 days ago, and I procrastinated on writing this post. I promised myself that I’ll try to post as often as I can on this blog at the start of this year. Heck, I even procrastinated on fulfilling that promised for a good month. Slowly but surely I’ll lower my tendency to procrastinate.)
(I don’t normally write about love that much, but since it’s a special occasion for some, why not write about it. It’ll be business as usual on my next post)
Until the next time…